Apr 10
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Dating Advice for Girls
From the beginning of time, girls have always been big on appearance. At a very young age they develop an interest in anything their mothers do because, in their minds, these are the things girls are expected to do. Most of the time, it doesn’t last too long because of the competitive society we’re living in.
Girls start to realize that their competition, in reality, isn’t their mothers, but instead, their fellow peers. We all, as human beings, crave a level of attention, but the things we do for it determines the type of attention we get. Depending on what we do, it can result in complete rejection which can be hard, especially at a very young age.
At a young age we are molded by our surroundings (people around us) since we are still in the search of an identity. Coming into this world, we have no idea about who we’re to be so we depend on the ones that were here before us to guide us in the right direction.
Despite of efforts by parents, it appears that the media has taken complete control over our youth, especially girls. Because of that they’ve become overly self-conscious. The media portrays an “ideal” woman in a whole other light. Nowadays, it almost seems like you have to meet a criteria to be accepted. Because of that many, girls feel pressured to live up to worldly standards.
Television programs are sending out the wrong messages to these girls. It teaches girls that wearing nothing is sexy at a young age. Because of that, a lot of pride has been stripped away from them. Their values have been lost and forgotten.
It has led to girls doing way too much to being accepted. The media has destroyed the minds of our young girls. They are in deep need of dating advice because the things they’ve been fed has really put them in regretful situations. My dating advice to you girls would be to take control of yourselves!
To all the girls out there, no matter where you are from; no matter what anyone says or what anyone may feel, you’re beautiful. By each of you being different in your own ways, it makes you unique and special. Embrace yourself as you are; love yourself and project the respect that you want the guys out there to give you, because a girl always gets the demanded respect.
