Mar 10
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Dating Advice for Men
As a man, it is very easy for me to write “Dating Advice for Men” because I know our dating strengths and I know our dating weaknesses. I also made my own share of mistakes and have come to realize what works and what doesn’t as far as relationships are concerned. But it seems like when it comes to dating, we all still have a lot to learn.
Giving dating advice for men is not the xeasiest, for I can go on forever on this topic. Because dating is such a broad topic, I’ll just focus on the one common thing we seem to just can’t get right. When it comes to our egos, seems like we haven’t figured out how to keep it under control just yet.
One thing we need to remember as men is that we do not own women. Now I understand that love makes you do things that are out of the ordinary, but why do we feel that we have power over our women? During the dating stages, we tend to be the up most gentlemen. After that…well, it seems like we forget.
Through experience, I found that it’s better to give a woman the freedom of being a woman to me instead of trying to 
make a woman be a woman to me. What I mean is that a man should never have to tell a woman what to do, instead, allow a woman to make her own decisions. Give her a chance to be a woman to you.
Always remember that we could never be a man in a relationship unless a woman allowed us to be just that. It’s time we rid our insecurities and control our egos! A relationship consists of a king and a queen, not a king and a servant. So let’s treat our women as the queens that they are. Not for one second should we think that we made them queens, for they all came into this world as such. Like my mom always told me, “Always be the reason they smile, not the reason they cry. Be the one they come to, not the one they get away from. Be a man!”
We spend so much time trying to make rules and guidelines that we forget that the most important thing is the happiness of the woman we are in a relationship with. Love her, cherish her, and make her fall in love with you all over again every day. Like my mom once told me, “Be a man!”
