Dating secrets? Are there really secrets that we are not aware of? As I look around me, I realize how lost many people are when it comes to dating. It seems like we’ve put so much focus on others that, somewhere along the way, we’ve forgotten about ourselves.

My dad once told me, “You can have any girl you want out there son.” At that time I really thought he was crazy, but he really wasn’t. He said words that I wouldn’t appreciate until I grasped something important, and that was the value of ones being. That’s right, I had to see the good in me before I was able to realize exactly what the old man was talking about.

The number one thing we need to learn before presenting ourselves as worthy is ourselves. How easy would it be if you tried to sell an item you knew nothing about? I’m pretty sure it would be hard to convince anyone that this item was right for them. It’s taught in sales that you must always believe in the product you are selling in order to become a successful salesman.

It wasn’t until I knew who I was, that I was able to believe those very words my dad once told me. Because I’ve come to know who I am, I’m able to have more confidence in the man that I am today. I know my strengths and I know my weaknesses. The good thing about knowing both your strengths and weaknesses is that you’re able to see where you are and realize where you need to be.

Our egos have come to outgrow us. We compete against each other when we should really be competing against ourselves. See, we each have our own imperfections so the more we compete, the more we steer away from progress. Fight yourself and challenge yourself everyday to be better than the man you were the day before. Take the time to look yourself in the mirror to expose your weaknesses. After you’ve exposed yourself, there’s only one thing left to do, improve!

As imperfect humans, the work is never done since there’s always something we need to improve upon. I’m not saying, try to be perfect, but I am saying to aim to be the best man you can be. By doing so, you’ll see the positive changes in the way you interact with women. Instead of saying, “I think I can be the man for you,” you’ll say, “I know I can be the man for you!” Not only will you say it, but you’ll believe it and by you believing it, so will they.

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