Is there really a good reason for cheating? Many seem to claim that there is. Out of all the reasons people chose to cheat, I can’t think of one that jumps out as valid. Then again, that’s just my opinion.

A relationship is a commitment made between two people in hopes of building an everlasting bond; a true connection. For some reason, it tends to be a short term contract for many. The real question is why? Why would someone make a commitment, only to break it through disloyalty?

I’ve come to figure out the answer to that question through constant observation. See, nowadays, people don’t really take relationships too seriously. Apparently, many date in order to fill a void of companionship rather than the search of that one special someone. They date for the physical rather than what lies within.

Unfortunately, cheaters never take into account the hearts they break and the feelings they crush. I mean I would take the time to list the reasons that people cheat, but I’d rather not because in no way do I support these actions. I don’t believe there are reasons for such actions, rather, I believe that people give excuses and for some odd reason, I’m not much of a fan of excuses.

I say it’s time we realize what it is we really want. It’s time we grow up and stick behind the commitments we make and look to keep the promises we hand out. It’s time that we value the feelings of others instead of just our own. Like I tell any woman, never cheat, never lie, because if you can lie, you can cheat, and if you can cheat, you’ve already lied. Think about it.

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