Aug 10
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Was it Just a Summer Fling?
Question from Larissa, Florida
Q: “As u know,it is summer,i was hooking up with a guy. He doesn’t live were i do but he comes often. In January ,I’m going to college where he lives. I really like him.I don’t know if he feels the same.he left a couple of days ago, haven’t heard from him since.What do you suggest? And what do u think?Was it just a summer fling? Or how should i find out?”
A: Interesting. In order for me to give you the best answer it would be nice to get answers to some questions that I have going through my mind. Does he know how you feel about him? Because when the average man isn’t told anything, he assumes that its just mutual fun and him not being around puts him in a more comfortable state to do so. Whenever there are feelings involved it’s always good to put them all on the table at the beginning in order to prevent a negative ending. Always make your intentions clear so that there is no confusion between you and that person.
